Mark & Steve
Apr 21, 20201 min
During their deep addiction years, Mark and Steve made all the marriage mistakes you can imagine! Now they offer you a great gift—the opportunity to LEARN from their MISTAKES! If they could go back in time knowing what they know now, here's what Mark and Steve would've done different in their MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP—
During our courtship, I would've been open, honest, vulnerable and transparent—allowing my future wife to SEE the REAL me and KNOW the man she was about to marry.
I would've let go of my MACHO attitude of needing to "handle it myself," and "go it alone" (excuses)—and been raw, open and sought serious therapy sooner!
I would've dared to "get underneath" my anger, silence and other "covering up strategies" to get to my real issues and real trauma.
I would've been less obsessed over my "knight-in-shining-armor" complex—"always being right" and realized it was OK to make mistakes in my marriage and ADMIT IT!
I would've practiced "being comfortable with the uncomfortable" in my marriage and embraced the "tough conversations"!
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Find out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension Counseling
Learn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services
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How can you "heal" your marriage relationship?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/how-to-mend-your-marriage
Ready to STOP Keeping Secrets in your marriage?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/no-more-secrets-in-your-marriage
What is the difference between "True Intimacy" and "sex" in a marriage relationship?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/true-intimacy-vs-sex-in-marriage