How We Get Stuck in our Pain . . . and How to Heal and Move Forward

In this episode, Mark and Steve come from a very heart-felt place in speaking to the women who may find themselves "stuck in the pain of Betrayal Trauma." This is actually a very common struggle for many in early or even ongoing healing and recovery. Mark and Steve discuss—

- How the "grieving process" is a necessary part of facing pain and beginning to heal.

- Many women and men feel like they "don't have a voice," aren't being heard and often never really learned "how" to have a voice.

- Mark tells his personal trauma story as a kid and never really being "heard" or acknowledged. How this created Betrayal Trauma AND addiction!

- There are "communication realities or truths" that often do NOT adhere to our expectations or the "standard check-the-boxes."

- Why trauma does NOT follow a standard timeline and there is no "manual" that declares what is "normal" when it comes to healing. It takes what it takes!

- We CAN learn new communication skills, find our voice and learn to ADVOCATE for ourselves and others!

- HOW to learn to "lean into the pain," find "shame resiliency" and help each other as spouses through the recovery and healing processes.

Find out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension Counseling

Learn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services

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