- Learn how to “let go” of Your Spouse’s Healing.
- Instead of focusing on what she is or is not doing—put all your energy into YOUR recovery.
- You can’t “undo” trauma or “fix” your spouse. The best thing you CAN do is CHOOSE to break free from addiction.
- The best chance to “save your marriage” is to work your own recovery!
- Clear Setting AND Adherence to Boundaries is essential—it’s the ONLY way to make forward progress.
- “Hard things” do NOT justify abandoning boundaries and going back to “old ways”—back to “victimhood.”
- Look out for “complacency” when things are going well.
- Individual paths of recovery and healing will bring you back to a connected, joyful marriage path.
Find out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension Counseling
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