In this episode, Mark and Steve address a HUGE issue many partners struggle with. Here's how a PBSE listener expressed it—
My question is with all the porn videos and images he has seen how does the wife know what he is thinking while having sex with the wife? By this I mean how do we know, even after getting help, which he is not in any recovery, that he is not still bringing some porn scene, scenarios or acts he's seen, into the bedroom?
The raw answer is: "You don't know!" and you CAN'T control what he does or does not think about. So WHAT do you do with that reality??? HOW can you ever have a healthy relationship or healthy sex KNOWING this is true???
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Learn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services Here's an article about what "Healthy Sexuality" looks like in a marriage relationship—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/true-intimacy-vs-sex-in-marriage